This Is Not About You

By Rosemary Mac Cabe

A memoir about dating and romance, or lack thereof – from one terrible man to the next

The crowd has spoken – This Is Not About You is happening. Pre-order your reward now.
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eBook

Ebook plus your name printed in the back.
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First edition hardback

Get your copy of This Is Not About You, except you get to have it be kind of about you, because your name will be in the back among the list of supporters.

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$55  + shipping
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Signed hardback

Get your signed copy of This Is Not About You, except you get to have it be kind of about you, because your name will be in the back among the list of supporters.

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$60  + shipping
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Dogs > men

A signed first edition hardback of This Is Not About You, with a photograph of Rosemary’s dog, Coileán, tucked somewhere into the book.

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$70  + shipping
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Book bundle

Buy two copies of the book: one for you, one for a friend.

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$75  + shipping
1 pledge

This postcard is not about you

A pack of four postcards featuring the cover art from the book. Plus a signed copy of the book and eBook with your name in the back among the list of supporters.

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$90  + shipping
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Totes narcissistic

You’ll get a This Is Not About You tote bag, plus a signed copy of the book with your name in the back among the list of supporters.

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$105  + shipping
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Bundle of joy

You’ll get a tote, a mug and a signed copy of the book with your name in the back among the list of supporters.

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$120  + shipping
2 pledges

In conversation

An exclusive audio interview with Rosemary, discussing This Is Not About You, the writing and publishing process (and whether any of her exes have complained). Plus you’ll get a signed copy of the book.

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$150  + shipping
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Email my heart

Do you have some tough truths to tell an ex? Rosemary will write a bespoke email from you to them, outlining exactly what went wrong (and why it’s all their fault), plus you’ll receive a signed copy of the book with your name in the back among the list of supporters.

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$225  + shipping
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Love story

Rosemary will write the short story of your love life, plus you’ll receive two signed copies of the book with your name and a name of your choice in the back among the list of supporters.

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$900  + shipping

Talk is(n't) cheap

Rosemary will come and give a talk at your school, workplace or other establishment on a topic of your choosing – whether you want her to discuss the book, her career, a more general discussion on mental health, the world is your oyster! Plus you’ll receive 20 signed copies of the book with your name or your company or organisation's name in the back.
Rosemary's accommodation/ travel from Dublin not included
Only 10 available

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$1,500  + shipping

Loving kindness

Your name or your book club or company's name in a special section at the back of the book thanking you for your support, plus ten signed copies of the book.
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  • Ten eBooks
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$7,500  + shipping

True love

Your name in a special section at the front of the book, thanking you for your support, plus ten signed copies of the book, ten mugs and ten tote bags.
Only 1 available

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  • Ten eBooks
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