This Is Not About You

By Rosemary Mac Cabe

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First edition hardback

Get your copy of This Is Not About You, except you get to have it be kind of about you, because your name will be in the back among the list of supporters.
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Dogs > men

A signed first edition hardback of This Is Not About You, with a photograph of Rosemary’s dog, Coileán, tucked somewhere into the book.
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Book bundle

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You’ll get a This Is Not About You tote bag, plus a signed copy of the book with your name in the back among the list of supporters.
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Bundle of joy

You’ll get a tote, a mug and a signed copy of the book with your name in the back among the list of supporters.
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In conversation

An exclusive audio interview with Rosemary, discussing This Is Not About You, the writing and publishing process (and whether any of her exes have complained). Plus you’ll get a signed copy of the book.
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Email my heart

Do you have some tough truths to tell an ex? Rosemary will write a bespoke email from you to them, outlining exactly what went wrong (and why it’s all their fault), plus you’ll receive a signed copy of the book with your name in the back among the list of supporters.
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Talk is(n't) cheap

Rosemary will come and give a talk at your school, workplace or other establishment on a topic of your choosing – whether you want her to discuss the book, her career, a more general discussion on mental health, the world is your oyster! Plus you’ll receive 20 signed copies of the book with your name or your company or organisation's name in the back.
Rosemary's accommodation/ travel from Dublin not included
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Loving kindness

Your name or your book club or company's name in a special section at the back of the book thanking you for your support, plus ten signed copies of the book.
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True love

Your name in a special section at the front of the book, thanking you for your support, plus ten signed copies of the book, ten mugs and ten tote bags.
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