Make This Is Not About You a reality – choose your reward below.
FEATURED REWARD
$55
+ shipping
53 pledges
Signed hardback
Get your signed copy of This Is Not About You, except you get to have it be kind of about you, because your name will be in the back among the list of supporters.

FEATURED REWARD
$225
+ shipping
1 pledge
Love story
Rosemary will write the short story of your love life, plus you’ll receive two signed copies of the book with your name and a name of your choice in the back among the list of supporters.
$40
+ shipping
127 pledges
First edition hardback
Get your copy of This Is Not About You, except you get to have it be kind of about you, because your name will be in the back among the list of supporters.

$60
+ shipping
6 pledges
Dogs > men
A signed first edition hardback of This Is Not About You, with a photograph of Rosemary’s dog, Coileán, tucked somewhere into the book.
$70
+ shipping
5 pledges
$90
+ shipping
2 pledges
Totes narcissistic
You’ll get a This Is Not About You tote bag, plus a signed copy of the book with your name in the back among the list of supporters.

$105
+ shipping
4 pledges
Bundle of joy
You’ll get a tote, a mug and a signed copy of the book with your name in the back among the list of supporters.
$120
+ shipping
1 pledge
In conversation
An exclusive audio interview with Rosemary, discussing This Is Not About You, the writing and publishing process (and whether any of her exes have complained). Plus you’ll get a signed copy of the book.
$150
+ shipping
1 pledge
Email my heart
Do you have some tough truths to tell an ex? Rosemary will write a bespoke email from you to them, outlining exactly what went wrong (and why it’s all their fault), plus you’ll receive a signed copy of the book with your name in the back among the list of supporters.
$900
+ shipping
Talk is(n't) cheap
Rosemary will come and give a talk at your school, workplace or other establishment on a topic of your choosing – whether you want her to discuss the book, her career, a more general discussion on mental health, the world is your oyster! Plus you’ll receive 20 signed copies of the book with your name or your company or organisation's name in the back.
Rosemary's accommodation/ travel from Dublin not included
Only 10 available
Rosemary's accommodation/ travel from Dublin not included
Only 10 available
$1,500
+ shipping
Loving kindness
Your name or your book club or company's name in a special section at the back of the book thanking you for your support, plus ten signed copies of the book.
Only 5 available
Only 5 available
$7,500
+ shipping
True love
Your name in a special section at the front of the book, thanking you for your support, plus ten signed copies of the book, ten mugs and ten tote bags.
Only 1 available
Only 1 available
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