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What makes a good man bad? Nature or nurture? A story of secrets, lies, loss and abuse…

This is the story of my father Tomas Ungar, from the small Czech town of Boskovice, a Holocaust survivor who became the more-British-than-the-British Tom Unwin, erstwhile intelligence officer, United Nations diplomat and champion of the downtrodden.

But his whole life was a lie of one sort or another and, sifting through a suitcase-full of dusty documents, I gradually came to the hardest conclusion of all: it was possible to be part of the great Jewish exodus and still leave a trail of destruction in his wake.

Was it a case of nature vs nurture? Did my father inherit his cruel character from his father, Hermann Ungar, the Czech writer and diplomat, friend of Thomas Mann and Stefan Zweig?

I tease out how a victim can become a perpetrator; why my charming and charismatic dad was in fact a wife-beating, narcissistic misogynist, who hid his Jewish roots and abandoned and kept secret his illegitimate daughter until his death-bed confession.

Tomas Ungar/Tom Unwin is an amoral everyman figure emerging rootless from a corner of Europe at the darkest hour – a reminder that it is not always history which shapes the man, but the man that shapes himself.

His story resonates across the decades and contributes fascinating insights into the debate on the influence of genes.

Vicky Unwin has had a long career, centred round her African roots, in both book and newspaper publishing. But she was always intrigued by her father’s secretive past and started to research the family history.

Then her daughter died of an accidental drug overdose in 2011 and her world was shattered. Her relationship with her father was already fraught and she abandoned the research, joining a campaign to introduce compulsory drug education in schools to warn of the dangers of ketamine and legal highs. She became a public spokesperson and wrote for national newspapers, appeared on Woman’s Hour, all the breakfast TV sofas, and graced many magazines.

But Louise’s death took its toll and Vicky developed a life-threatening soft tissue sarcoma. She turned to writing as therapy. Her first book, Love and War in The WRNS (History Press), a collection of her mother’s letters home during the Second World War, was published in June 2015 and received favourable reviews.

Following her father’s death in 2012 she finally felt strong enough to return to the family secrets and this book tells the story.

As a result of all the trauma, she wants to give something back, while remaining true to her passions: she is a Trustee of United World Schools, whose charter is to ‘teach the unreached’. In addition, she is Chairman of a contemporary Art Gallery and a former Judge and current council member of the Caine Prize for African Writing.

Vicky is five years in remission and lives life to the full.
Her determination to survive and love of travel, films and food are celebrated in her blogs, Healthy Living with Cancer, Vicky Goes Travelling and Vicky at the Movies. She is a fantastic cook and loves nothing more than entertaining friends to a good meal – and is happy to offer to cook for your dinner party!

Tom has fled Prague, summoning his mother and younger brother. They arrived on 29 March 1939, 14 days after the Nazis invaded Prague.

Chapter 5 The metamorphosis of Tomas Ungar


Grete’s Certificate of Registration, issued on 29 June 1939, allowed her to stay in Britain for three months on condition that she did not ‘establish himself [sic] or seek any employment’. She rapidly agreed with Tomy that they should emigrate to Canada, where Rudi [her first husband] and John [son from that marriage] were also planning to go as soon as it could be arranged. Meanwhile, she rented a cheap flat on Fairfax Road near Swiss Cottage in northwest London, close to where I now live, from a couple whom Grete recalled had ‘dirty feet’ and ‘didn’t wash their clothes enough’.

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Hurray!

Saturday, 6 July 2019

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My book is now completety funded thanks to your generosity and my dear Ross who topped up the fund so we could get the book to its next stage!

I shall keep you all updated as to its progress although it may yet be slow as there's lots of pre-prodcution work to do...

Once again heartfelt thanks to you for supporting me.

Have a wonderful summer.

Vicky

 

Now up to 55% funded

Saturday, 4 May 2019

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A quick thank you this holiday weekend to you all for helping the book along its way. I aim to get it funded by the month-end so if you can share and spread the word, please do...

Here's a sneak preview photograph of my parents as they started life on the Groundnut Scheme in Tanganyika in the late 1940s:

10 days in and 43% target reached

Tuesday, 23 April 2019

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Thank you all for your support. Now the Easter weekend is over, any forwards and social media recommendations you can do as well would be great. The target this week is 50%!

Plus a great endorsement from Alan Samson, Chairman of Weidenfeld & Nicholson, who says 'I am very pleased. Your book absolutely deserves to be published and I am a great fan of Unbound. I shall do my bit for you and the book…

4 days in and 33% target reached! Thank you all...

Monday, 15 April 2019

Plus a great endorsement from Alan Samson, Chairman of Weidenfeld & Nicholson, who says 'I am very pleased. You book absolutely deserves to be published and I am a great fan of Unbound. I shall do my bit for you and the book!' Please share this great news - hopefully with the right thumbnail this time, not of my old book!

15% funded after TWO days

Saturday, 13 April 2019

Thank you all for your support so far...let's keep going and make this one of the fastest funded books on Unbound! Spread the word - tweet, insta and share on FB, plus forward to your friends. Thanks

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